Where do you see yourself in the future?This is an important aspect of life that so many of us disregard yet it is very key irrespective of our sexual orientation,gender identity,race,religion etc.

Let’s talk about goal setting as a powerful process for thinking about your ideal future, and for motivating yourself to turn your vision of this future into reality.This helps you in deciding what you want to achieve in your life, builds your self confidence and helps you sieve what’s important from what’s irrelevant.Goals can be short term or long term.

Setting goals  focusses your acquisition of knowledge,and helps you to organise your time and resources so that you can make the very most of your life.Let your goals be specific,measurable,attainable,rewarding and trackable.

And  please  let your  goals cover all important areas in your life including career,financial,education,relationships,family,physical because leaving out one affects the other.

For example as a lesbian couple do you see  your partner as your destiny? What happens in case of a divorce?Would you want to own, buy and manage property and bank accounts together?Do you want to have children as a couple?These are life plans and dreams that are valid but you need to visualise them.

Believing  in yourself and your  capabilities to achieve your goals will influence over events that affect your life.Start now and  dream of a new future.